I've been very busy for the past couple of weeks and have put off a very important task: breaking up with my boyfriend of several months. Now the day has come and I have to decide in the next hour whether to drive up there and do it in person or do it over the phone.

There have been no "I love you"s or promises of eternal togetherness, but I do really like him. There are just some pants barriers that are unlikely to be overcome. I'm pretty sure he knows this is coming, so I don't know if it's better to do it quick and get it over with (phone) or go out there and do it with hugs and a friendly shoulder if it's needed.

Help!

ETA: OK, so I think what I'm going to do is call and say, "We need to talk," and give him the option of me going up there or not. He'll know what's coming and can choose his method of delivery. It's a little wimpy, but not as bad as just blurting it out or texting him.

Either way, this sucks.