I was reading this here i09 thread. It really resonated with me. I realize that a lot of my problems come from not valuing myself as a person, not accepting myself as worthy of anything.

But how do you accept yourself, exactly? It's easy to list things off like "stop comparing yourself to others" or "just love yourself." But seriously, how? How do you stop comparing when you see that you're inferior? And how do you "love" yourself when you perceive yourself as unlovable? It's not as simple as lying to yourself, "faking til making" or whatever...because you know you're lying.

Thoughts?