I am crowdsourcing you guys because I am sort of at my wits end with my MIL. We just moved into the same town as my inlaws, more for low real estate/job opportunities for my husband. Since I moved, my MIL has been the biggest bitch to me. Starting with monitoring every morsel of food that goes down my throat to making critical comments about my parenting or how I manage my house in front right in front of me to gossiping about every move I make to everyone else in my husband's family. My MIL plays sort of nice in front of my husband but my husband does believe at how nasty she is being because she speaks the same about my other SIL.
I am at my breaking point. I told my husband that I am no longer going to spend time when he goes to dinner with them. He can go alone. I am not spending my free time being criticised.
What should I do? I refuse to be criticized in front of my daughter.