My coworkers were talking about being organ donors for some reason and one went on a rant about how he didn't tell his wife that he signed up to be a donor and when she found out she was upset that he didn't tell her and what's the big deal it's his damn body, right?
And I said, when my cousin died, we didn't know she was an organ donor and when the family was standing around her bed in the hospital crying because they took her off life support the doctor came in and said they had to take her body away soon so they could harvest her organs. It was quite a shock.
"....I guess that would be shocking."
I don't do it on purpose usually but damn, I can be a downer.