I sent the dude I'm talking to a picture of me in a costume for my current show. He responded with a pic of him without his shirt. It's not super-out of the blue for him to do that because we've been flirting hardcore, and he's a good looking dude, but sexy selfies make me feel awkward inside. Like I'm perusing Craigslist personals/dating Anthony Weiner/one step away from a Lifetime Movie. But in my experience a lot of people (men especially) like to send people they want to bone sexy pictures AND I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY?!

Maybe I'm just a very language oriented person, but I always considered sexy texts>photos and literary smut>porn. Those kind of things don't turn me on at all. Anyone else in the anti-selfie camp?