Awesome Date Dude (henceforth "ADD") just texted to say he's having people over for the Miami Heat game and drinks tonight and I'm invited~! It's not one-on-one, but he initiated and invited me to a thing, so I'm counting it. It's late enough that I won't be studying for finals, so that's good. Now I'm off to google about the Miami Heat and figure out what I should wear (after some more studying, of course...)


I feel a little weird because I decided to pretend ADD didn't exist for the purposes of my dating life, since I hadn't heard anything from him in a week or so. Don't put all your eggs in one basket, don't get invested before there's something to invest in, right? Instead, I attempted to have a one-night-stand on Wednesday night, because I had an itch that needed scratching. We talked literally all night, had sex, and then ended up with a date for next Wednesday night. Wednesday Night Dude (WND) and I have been texting ever since, and he friended me on Facebook. (I am terrible at one night stands. My last attempt at a one night stand ended up being a 2 month affair.)

This is a good problem to have — two interested guys who have spent time with me (and we had a good time!), plus a bunch of cool sounding dudes on OKC, who are all interested. My biggest issue is that I'm pretty hardwired monogamous, so I feel a little guilty already for going to ADD's place tonight when I'm talking so much with WND. That being said, I'm going to try to put it all out of my mind. I haven't dated any of these guys enough to be talking exclusivity yet.