I am feeling a lot better about the situation, even if everything is still up in the air. I mentioned to my girlfriend last night that I'm feeling really overwhelmed with everything, and she apologized for having to jet so quickly and leave all of the apartment mess to me. Some of you expressed concern that that was a super shitty thing for her to do, and it was, but she also wasn't ready to leave when she did, but her new company wanted her immediately. I also really wanted her to take this job because she had been floundering in a job that she hated for the past 4 or 5 years, and her frustration was starting to wear me down. At any rate, I think I'm going to try to reach out to her family more (my family is 3-4 hours away), and yesterday I remembered that my girlfriend has a sort of second family in town, and her second mother told me once never to hesitate to call her if I need anything, so there's that too. Thanks for being a friend, Groupthink.