We moved into sex before I felt a level of emotional intimacy, and I've tried to pull it back, and it's not working. I like this guy, we have a great time together, when we're together, but when we're not, like on the phone and text, he needs a ton of sexual validation, and I can't give it to him right now. I just want to get to know him, but he's either turned up to 11, or completely detached. And that makes me SUPER uncomfortable. I'm going to see if we can hit the reset button, and put the sex train back in the station, but I don't have high hopes.
Oh well...there will be others. It's too bad, because we get along so well in so many other ways, but it's way too early to feel so much stress.