According to OKCupid, my gaydar is pretty good. There's a quiz thing where you can look at photos and guess if someone is queer or not. Usually, I get in the 90s. But I really kind of think gaydar is bullshit.

When a big star comes out, there's usually a chorus of "yeah, I knew that, didn't everybody?" or "wasn't it obvious?" I'm beginning to think that "gaydar" really means "noticing the gendernormative stereotypical ways in which people act."

I'm including a picture of Wentworth Miller because I had no fucking clue he was gay.