My boyfriend that I live with secretly got himself into 7k in debt, and on Saturday I asked him to pay two household bills that were due today and he said he would do it right away. Today I found out they didn’t get done, and that he lied to me intentionally to “get you off my back”. We’re supposed to be starting a family this year, and he knows lying is absolutely never allowed by me under any circumstances.

If we break up I will be homeless and I am too disabled to work, there is no social program for me, I’ve already applied and been denied.

I still have to go though, right? This isn’t going to change?