First, I want to than everyone for the moral support and the great tips and information for me last night. It is appreciated and all of the tips are helping so much.
Ben's using the litterbox now instead of just squatting wherever he pleases, so that is great news. There doesn't seem to be anymore blood in the urine, which is TREMENDOUS news. The output is still drops and dribbles, but frequent, so there doesn't seem to be any blockages. He's still not eating a whole lot, but he did have a bowel movement between last night and this morning. He's still not drinking much either.
He got his meds this morning and we tried out the cat burrito. Nobody's eyeballs were scratched out, no fingers were bitten, although he is very slinky and wriggled around a whole lot, so it was still tricky, and he still got pissed off in the end and hid under the kitchen table for a bit.
I feel a bit better now that he's showing improvement, and again, I want to thank all of you for the support.