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Mixed feelings...

Today was Day 3 of me seeing this guy. Last night I went to his place (nothing happened except kissing) and it didn't happen 'til later on about an hour before I was going to leave. I had a good time hanging out with him and watching a movie and towards the end when we were kissing he basically told me he was turned on but I pretty much let it be known I had to go (he also doesn't know I'm a virgin so this is going to be interesting).

Today we have lunch and I'm still not sure what to think. On the one hand, conversation is pretty natural and I find him attractive; on the other hand, the way he says things throws me off in the sense that his tone is a bit arrogant. However, it's never towards me, but just in general. His mannerisms also come off that way (wish I could describe this better). It's like every time I see him he says something in an a kind of snooty tone and then goes back to being this really laid back guy that's really interested in what I have to say and what I'm studying and things like that.

Is this guy maybe just trying to impress me or something? His voice in general also kinda threw me off, so I'm wondering if that is affecting the way I am perceiving him. I'm not sure what this is. I'm trying to take things slow because 1) I just need to anyway and that's how I am 2) I can't quite figure out what's going on and I'm not sure if he is putting on a facade for me or not.


I wonder if I'm struggling to get past his voice and it's throwing off things. I also think he is struggling to push away his past of being poor (he shared with me he grew up pretty poor). I don't see the need to want to put on a show like that for me because I grew up lower middle class at best...I'm either reading too much into things or I need to read into them even more.

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