Note: I don’t think having a driver’s license is a mark of adulthood. Lots of competent adults don’t drive. But we do live in an area that has zero public transportation beyond taxis, and this particular guy, a stranger who has lived here a few years and who I started chatting with today, is specifically interested in a long-term relationship. And lives 30 miles from me. And casually asks me (a stranger) to pick him up and drop him off because taxis are too expensive.