how many of you recommend/ have success with NVC? I have had it recommended many times, finally bought it, and have no real desire to actually show my feelings. Showing someone their actions affect me is basically a cardinal sin. Of course, tea kettle style, they do eventually find out.

Ie. When I state my feelings, I feel uncomfortable.

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