Dildos are not hateful. Penis shaped candies are not hateful. This is mockery or even maybe a strange sort of expression of friendship. Not the kind of friend that takes you seriously, but the here have a cookie and please don’t drunkenly shot each other kind of friend.
I once spoke out against a PUA group who had invaded a local mall and no one sent me jujubes or sexyfuntimes stuff. Just saying.
In all seriousness, I have no doubt they are getting some nasty real hate mail, but I thought it was funny that the examples he complains about in the video were all penis-related.
Oh, and they are saying this morning that they will be announcing plans to leave the wildlife preserve this Friday night. Am skeptical.