I’m sorry that I cut some really good conversations short, but I have to go to bed and I might not have time to get on GT tomorrow.
(And I’m not comfortable leaving it up longer than 24 hours anyway, I don’t like having posts where it’s easy for people who know me to identify who I’m talking about hanging around on the internet, since some people who know me IRL know my Kinja name.)

Thank you everyone for your amazing and thoughtful responses!