Is ok to copy a tattoo you like. Does it matter if you know the person whose tattoo you are stealing?

I once heard that you can pick the people that you want in your life(friends and romantic partners) by the energy that you give off. Do you think that is true or just a bit woo woo?

Why do men defend the actions of other men even if they don’t know them? Like I’ve had conversations with men about the way a man treated me. Some of them try so hard to defend the guys bad behavior and sometimes they try to blame me for it.