I am having a baby this week and working until the day beforehand. I said that I don'tt want any visitors in the apartment for at least a week - a few years ago after our first was born, we had multiple visitors a day and it was really stressful for me. I was exhausted, in pain, and just plain wanted to be alone. Then, I had to go to a get-together with the baby at my MIL's house so the entire extended family could meet the baby.

I know my MIL and FIL (both of whom I absolutely ADORE) are helping us out quite a bit with free childcare when we need it but I really don't want to do that again. My husband is annoyed and unhappy that I don't want his siblings or anyone else over for at least a week either.

How big of a bitch am I being on a scale of 1-10?

ETA: Thank you everybody for confirming that I am not acting like a bitchy person. I was feeling really crappy because I thought maybe I was being super selfish but last time this happened it SUCKED SO HARD and NOBODY freaking thought anything of it.