I've been pretty much dating this guy for 3 months now, and we never really had the talk about what our relationship was defined as. We're both very bad communicators. Anyway, yesterday he introduced me to his friends as his girlfriend. I was a bit surprised because we never had this talk, and I've been wanting to have this talk. I'm not upset or anything...I'm happy! I mean, we've been pretty much acting like an exclusive couple for 3 months. It just took me by surprise because we never discussed this before. I was going to make a joke about it later ("Oh, so I'm your girlfriend now, eh?"), but I was too afraid to bring it up. I'm not very good at this relationship thing...probably because this is the first legit relationship I've had. And you know what? I'm totally content with this. We're both just going with the flow, and I have no problem with that.