Can someone explain why clothing designed for grown-assed women has to be covered in bows, ribbons, and effing ruffles?

DOES ANYONE HAVE ARMS THAT LOOK GOOD UNDER THOSE RUFFLES? I have relatively muscular arms and the inch-past-the-shoulder-socket makes them look like hams.

I get it. I like small feminine details - I like those buttons! I like those polka dots!. But must
everything in the world
be covered in ruffles?! And then ribbons on top?

I’m keeping the shirt because I like the front, but I guarantee I’ll wear a cardigan no matter the weather.