I'm getting a little bored with my Magic Wand. But I'm trans (and pre-op), so what I'm looking for are...

toys that go in your butt. I've um... only ever been on the giving end of penetrative sex (and was extremely bored with it) and I'd like to be on the receiving end for once. But trying to find enjoyable sex when you're a pre-op trans woman is harder than trying to explain twerking to your grandparents, so it's gonna have to be done manually for now.

I'd be interested in suggestions like a good one to buy, a good site to buy them from, and so on. But maybe not the ones that are designed for prostate massaging, because the idea of using something designed specifically for men makes me feel a bit dysphoric.