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Should I let this guy come over?

Just for some background info: I am not looking for a hook up or anything like that and to complicate matters further, I am a virgin, so I am always wary about being at a guy's place or having them come over because I always assume they expect something. Whether or not that is always the case doesn't matter to me.

This guy is nice and I have given him a ride home a few times, but to come over to my place is another thing. I don't think I would have such a big issue with it if he wasn't so persistent about coming over. We'll text and he'll mention it like 4 or 5 times within that day. I don't know if he just doesn't realize that it comes off weird or not, but yeah. I'd like some company, but I am starting to wonder if I am also at a point where I am realizing what I don't like and I'm just not willing to put up with certain behaviors and responses to things more than before.


I may also just feel like being alone for a while... Grad school stretches me thin and I just don't have the energy to continuously find guys to date and I am not seeing online dating as feasible anymore for some reason. I kind of would like to meet someone in person rather than having that first contact be over the internet.

I'm just kinda over dating. I'm finding comfort in being by myself and maybe I need to do that for a while because I am starting to like it...

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