so, i had my baby last week. we have been home since Friday. i still cannot get her to latch and it is really affecting my self-confidence. i also forgot the diaper bag to an appointment with a lactation consultant and she needed a diaper change during our meeting and i looked like the worst mother ever. my breasts are constantly engorged. ugh. i am feeling pretty overwhelmed. jez moms, tell me that my feelings are normal.