So remember when I said I didn't get weddings? Well I can handle sitting through a wedding of someone I care about, to make a day about them and everyone they care about and the love they have for their partner even if I don't quite get it. But I would not sit through a friend marrying themselves. Having a single day, with a dress, vows and a ring. It's a very self centred thing to do. Want a day about yourself? Have a massive birthday party.