when someone "gets" you.
Have had a MISERABLE day at work and it's only getting worse. Long story short, my coworker(s) managed to screw up a few orders for a very high-capacity customer of mine so badly that I've completely lost him. COMPLETELY and through no fault of my own.
As such, Mr. Farce asked, "Can I get you anything? A glass of wine? How about this Malbec on the counter..."
I can hear him wander off to the bar and then hear, "Honey, do I use the big round glass?" Pause. "Heh, that's a stupid question."