So this has been my favorite tweet to go back to and read through lately, because the replies are maddening.

So many guys are in the replies in full defensive mode about the fact that they “don’t care about material things”. My dudes, having sheets and a bed frame are like bare minimum adulting. I feel like I’ve been having this debate with guys since I was a teenager.

Can someone explain this phenomenon to me? I showed this to GC and the pictures people submitted of their boyfriends' homes, and she gave me a hug for insisting that we keep our house neat and clean.