When I search online for what the typical cost of engagement rings is, all I can find is the “average” which takes into account people spending $50k on engagement rings (median would be more helpful) or the stupid rule of spending 3x the partner who is purchasing the ring’s monthly salary. 3x salary sounds like an absurd amount to spend on a ring to me and my SO. We could afford that, but it just seems ridiculous. We have been looking at rings which has been frustrating since brick and mortar stores seem to only have diamond engagement rings which we are not interested in, so we’re stuck purchasing online. Anyway, for those who feel comfortable sharing, please do, as I’m very curious.

And for your trouble...

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