So remember this?
I have a date early next week!
1) An eye-roll.
Commiserate with me.
So I’ve been on Tinder for the past couple weeks (mostly because it’s my favorite sport when I’m single) and I’ve noticed A Thing.
You don’t get to have 0 contact for 9 months and then be demanding when you finally reach out for some booty and I tell you I’m busy and that you should have reached out earlier in the day.
FACT: most stereotypes about women are a result of men projecting their bullshit insecurity onto others. Case in point, the stereotype that women are emotionally needy.
So I posted an ad on CL for a FWB since I know I’ll be moving in a year and probably shouldn’t be looking for anything serious but will go crazy if I don’t get laid soon and regularly.
Well, it’s not like they really wanted to; they basically agreed to it in a settlement reached in California.
I went on one date with this guy last week. He was cute, I had fun, and the kissing was nice.
As part of my apparently infinite optimism about dating, despite my matching infinite complaining about it, I leave no stone unturned in terms of where I search (except for, you know, actually in person because that’s just weird).
Hello friends! I just had a first date with a guy from Tinder—the second guy I have met on Tinder so far (things faded away with the first guy). Idk if there will be a second date with this guy because I was not really feeling a spark I guess? And we had a nice enough time but I didn’t get the sense that he was super…
Dating is the absolute worst.
Last week, had a second date with a guy. Drinks, light dinner, back at my place for sexy cookie-making, and sex. All around, fun times had by all, but the sex was definitely him-focused. But fun guy to spend time with, so I was looking forward to the next date.
Some background before getting into the actual question:
I like to think that I’m really fucking clear about what I’m looking for on my profile. No hidden agendas, no secret messages, just “Here I am and what I’m about.”
My profile very clearly states I’m looking to get married, and I have received so many messages from anti-marriage men I stopped counting. I usually ignore all of them, but I decided to engage in this one, and his response just reminded me of my libertarian, overly logical, emotionally stunted Ex that I wanted to…
Because I had some awesome sex yesterday!