Hahaha, I just did such a huge eye roll at this.
Since when did men get a free pass to have affairs? If anything, if we ever cheated, we'd be kicked out the house, have our stuff tossed out, have our cars burnt, etc. If women cheat, they look at it like it's okay and it's somehow the man's fault.
Yes, if women cheat on their spouses it's just okay. And it's "somehow" the man's fault. I'm not going to go into this with this person. It's not even an argument worth having - that it used to be more acceptable/expected for men to cheat than women. But that's not even the part he cares about (and, "have our cars burnt, etc?").