Someone I haven't spoken to since college (so 8 years) has been vaguebooking pretty hard lately. That generally annoys me, but it's also kind of unlike him. In high school and less so in college, we were pretty good friends and I think he's a really sweet guy who's kind of had a shitty time of it, and got teased a lot so I am wondering whether I should message him and just check up on him. I can tell something is going on in his life. I don't know if he'd talk to me.

What do y'all think? I mean, on the one hand, it's a 30 year old vaguebooking. On the other hand, he didn't do that as a less than 30 year old so...