I think I've lost my fashion sense. In the wake of being overworked, firmly comfortable in my relationship, and that weird stage in between a bob haircut and not a bob haircut I no longer know how to make myself look good and fashionable.

One of my friends is treating me to belated birthday sushi happy hour and the best look I came up with is black and white, with my hair in pin curls, and red lipstick. I seriously look like a mom who desperately needs a spritzer and regularly rubs her temples.

Aside from shopping, how do you cope with realizing you've lost the ability to groom yourself in a presentable manner? I've lost my touch, and I used to work in the fashion industry.