Why do I act surprised when people who write on something called "Bro Bible" are ridiculous.
I didn't even watch the video, but how are things published with bullshit like this on a website that apparently has an editing staff?
"Women in their 30s? Zero fucks given, because they're not caddy and jealous anymore. "
1. CADDY? Sir, did you mean CATTY? IF YOU'RE GOING TO INSULT WOMEN PLEASE AT LEAST SPELL THINGS CORRECTLY? We are not 19th century rakes.
2. hahahahahahaah Women in their 30s are still people. All people can be "catty"* and jealous.
3. As a (I'm not a girl... not yet a woman) of 24, I can tell you that while friends/young family getting married/engaged inspires talk of "well, I know I'd like to marry you, but not until I'm more financially/emotionally ready, but I know that I could spend my life with you." and not "OMG I MUST BE ENGAGED TO KEEP UP."
Seriously just being able to SAY that to my s.o. and have him respond with: "I've thought about us being married, and I'd like to live with you, let's look at apartments starting in the spring. I'm not ready to move in with you yet because I know once I live with you, that's it, we're living together for the rest of our lives."
Now, typed out that looks like he's panicking or whatever, but it was said in a faintly reverential tone/while holding my hands and looking into my eyes. (sorry. it was a really lovely moment)
All I have to say is: FUCK PEOPLE WHO THINK THAT ALL WOMEN ARE DESPERATE TO GET MARRIED. That fucking 300 sandwiches girl IS. NOT. HELPING.**
*see? Look how I spelled things correctly?
** honestly that fucking blog looks like a diary of emotional abuse. I would SMACK upside the head any man who spoke to me like that. I make my s.o. sandwiches when he asks nicely/is exhausted or I'm making myself a sandwich b/c that's what we're having for dinner.
ETA: Apologies for the victim blaming bit about if I were her I'd smack him upside the head for saying that to me. I would NOW, but that doesn't denigrate her being in a mental place that accepts that sort of language/being a victim of abuse. I've dealt with condescension like that (just because I have big boobs doesn't mean I don't have a faster, smarter brain than yours, asshole) and it took me forever to realize it is emotional abuse when it comes from people you think are friends/lovers. I just realized I did that. Sorry y'all.