) Grandma still dead. We are working on planning the graveside services. I think the hardest part was telling co-workers/friends and getting the super sympathy and feeling guilty that I don’t feel as bad as I should.
Though, it reminded me of why I love my boss. I had a meeting with her and told her “My grandma just died, but I’m doing fine. I just wanted you to know in case I ended up needing to take any bereavement leave”. Her reply was “Well, you get 40 hours of leave, so just take as many as you leave”. To some, it might seem a little cold, but it was exactly what I needed.
2) Glad I could be there for my mom. They still aren’t sure what they are going to do for her sweet puppy. It could range from “keep it bandaged and see if it heals on its own” to “ampuatation”. Poor sad, sweet little puppy!
3) I told the guy what was up, and he still wanted to meet me, so we had our date. It only lasted an hour, but we texted for a couple hours after, and he wants to see me again, but no date has been set. So.... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ I’m optimistic, but still unsure. He did kiss me at the end. He’s really tall, and at the end he gave me a hug and kind of kissed the top of my head. So, I looked up because in this case it felt sweet, not creepy. And, he kissed me again, and it was a very nice kiss. Not fireworks exploding, world stopping, but still a good one.