I was Facebook-stalking an old crush of mine from 20-ish years ago. We never really managed to make anything happen, but I crushed on him REALLY hard for awhile. By the time he realized it, I was over it (and dating his friend, so...). We lost touch years ago and he managed to pop up on a friend-of-a-friend's FB feed and so I got to clicking, and...

He was cute then, but now? HE IS SUPER DUPER OMG HOT.

Granted, my preferences and tastes have changed a bit, but he managed to grow into a man who aligns perfectly with what I like. WHAT.

So what's worse: finding out that an old crush/old flame is now super-duper hot or finding out that they're super-duper gross and fugly now?