Commiserate or encourage, i’ll take it all!

I’m not even officially engaged and i’m already so over planning a wedding. I’m facing another year of this shit and I just don’t want to do it. Budgets and spreadsheets and how the hell are we gonna AFFORD all this. It’s just so dumb. I just want to have a party and have fun with the people I love. why do you need TEN THOUSAND DOLLARS to let me do that in your venue? It’s just a shitty blank room that i’m still gonna have to spend money to make pretty. Ugh!