Don't say on Facebook, "Any of you photographer friends want to shoot my wedding? No pressure, just would rather give you the business first" because then what happens is everyone you've ever met is suddenly a photographer, or they plug their photographer friends who are not very good and you have to suddenly have all these awkward bye felipe conversations.

(note: I have a huge number of acquaintances who are photographers, which is why I put that message out there. None of them responded, haha.)