Someone wrote a fabulous piece on emotional abuse a while back that I wanted to send to someone, but I can't remember who wrote it. There might actually have been two posts by two different people. I'm specifically looking for the ones that deal with EA with the person you're dating, in a relationship with, or married to.
It did such a wonderful job of explaining (better than I could or can) what it was like to be in a relationship like that. Anywho, there's been a ton of posts in between now and then, so if you know what I'm trying to find, please post the link!