About 10 minutes before we were going to leave for the hospital, my girlfriend's brother texted us to say the baby had a rough first night last night, and he and his wife weren't really up for visitors. I have a sinking feeling it's going to be a very long time before we see that baby. I haven't even seen the brother or his wife since last summer because they keep skipping out on family gatherings to do their own thing. I've actually been to more things with my girlfriend's family than her brother has in the last six months.
At any rate, thanks for all of the advice from before. Hopefully it will come in handy sooner rather than later.