Thought experiment: say someone isn't super thrilled about being put on the shelf ala Jane Austen and wants to try being proactive about not dying alone and being eaten by cats? What is the LEAST vile dating website they could try?

We've see all the insane OKCupid messages, all heard the horror stories. Is there a dating website that doesn't make you despair for humanity and decide to just go live in a nunnery?

In this thought experiment the imaginary woman in question who is totally not me would like to try a free site before sinking money into this foolhardy endeavor.

So what is the least skeezy, least horrible, least vile dating website?