On that MP article about motherhood, I commented on struggling with not wanting to have children while my husband does.

Cue all and sundry asking, "why'd you marry someone who wanted children if you didn't?"

Or I should just get a divorce.

I'm an idiot -

- and not for choosing to marry him.

ETA: Prime example -

Are you being kind by being married to him? I'm happy you know how you feel and admit it. The biggest kindness would be for you to let him go and not capitulate.