and maybe you do, too.

I pull newbies out of the grey here after sneaky~spying on their history. I can't stand to leave a sweet person as " Pending" after they've opened up & commented.

I know many wonderful commenters are still languishing on the main~pages. I rarely comment on the main pages....but when I found Groupthink there was no hierarchy or grey. I was welcomed IMMEDIATELY and will always be grateful for that. I never had to fight my way out of the grey....