People, no matter what the circumstance, should be able to enter their workplace and work without filtering through grabby hands and sexual comments. I shouldn’t have to tell you to stop. You should know not to start. I am not arguing that women shouldn’t say or do anything in instances of experiencing sexual harassment. Sure, speak up. Throw a fit. But the responsibility that a woman has to do something is irrational. This isn’t an issue of women not doing enough to stop sexual harassment. This is an issue of men’s behavior: Being given permission to act “fun” and “wild” until or if ever someone says to stop.

But the responsibility that a woman has to do something is irrational. This isn’t an issue of women not doing enough to stop sexual harassment. This is an issue of men’s behavior: Being given permission to act “fun” and “wild” until or if ever someone says to stop.

My demand to the dudes: Stop being gross and start being funny.